SurvivingYour20s

#22 hot vs handsome, hear me outs, twilight hot takes & i fell for his friend

This week is a rollercoaster. We share our Twilight hot takes (yes, we’re still picking teams), break down the difference between handsome vs hot, and give a full hear me out on weirdly attractive men. We also open up about the exact moments we knew it was time to end a relationship, and Oliwia’s Royal Mail villain origin story. 
 
Also the HOT confessions: kicking someone off Spotify, pretending to sleep through tears, phone stalking, and even falling for your partner’s friend.
If you’re into messy dating stories, unfiltered confessions and the chaos of surviving your 20s, this one’s for you.
 
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Time stamps for description
00:00 - matchas, sunglasses + pjs 
00:36 - our dreams are being invaded by the same man 
06:13 - twilight hot takes: who’s team we’re on 
09:25 - hear me out… weirdly attractive men: a comprehensive breakdown
13:03 - handsome vs hot 
18:13 - royal mail beef: oliwia’s villain origin story
19:50 - times we knew we had to break up with him
26:11 - Charlotte’s had it with oliwia 
30:17 - HOT CONFESSIONS: kicked her off spotify, tears, phone stalking & falling for his friend
 
#SurvivingYour20s #PodcastLife #PodcastCommunity #LifeInYour20s #RelationshipTalk #DatingAdvice #ListenerConfessions #FunnyPodcast #RealLifeStories #LifeAdvice #FriendshipBanter #MessyEx 

#21 ai relationships are actually real?? + giving random men makeovers

This week is a wild one. We cover everything from a showdown with a man who’s rocking a ponytail to giving total strangers makeovers, the rise of AI relationships, yes… people are actually dating chatbots. Plus, our hot take on having children. As well as a dramatic carjacking story, and your juiciest confessions .
 
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Time stamps
00:00 - oliwia vs a man with a ponytail
04:16 - men that secretly hate women
06:29 - our real life sim: giving random men makeovers
13:13 - people are actually in ai relationships now now?
15:27 - i’ve never felt more seen or been more into anyone in my life 
19:41 - women morn lost love after cold chat gpt update
26:57 - having kids our hot take
30:58 - leave yas gpt alone
35:13 - so… oliwia got carjacked
38:15 - my friends bf is wildly in appropriate (listener confessions)
40:39 - i can’t stop stalking my ex help (listener confessions)

#20 Why If He Wanted To, He Would + Is the Divine Feminine Movement Secretly Holding Us Back?

This episode goes beyond the surface  we’re exploring the messy, funny, and complicated realities of being a woman right now. From dating and relationships to feminism and feminine / masculine energy, nothing’s off-limits.
Here’s what we unpack:💬 “If he wanted to, he would”  is that mindset empowering or limiting in modern dating?💊 Is the anti-birth control movement really about “natural living”… or is it quietly anti-feminist?🌸 The divine feminine movement, is it empowering women, or secretly holding us back with outdated ideas?
 
This isn’t just another chat; it’s an honest, thought-provoking conversation that blends storytelling, raw truths, and cultural commentary. Perfect if you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting empowerment and feeling pressured by society’s “rules” for women.
 
🎧 Tune in for laughter, vulnerability, and deep insights into what it means to navigate love, feminism, and identity in today’s world.
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Time stamps 
00:00 - There’s literally a heartbroken man at our studio
01:13 - We asked real boys the questions girls REALLY want answered
08:07 - Big news: we’re moving to London
13:01 - Cockroach chaos
20:45 - Is anti-birth control movement actually anti-feminist?
32:52 - Is the divine feminine movement secretly holding us back?
36:21 - Survival Hotline: confessions 
37:03 - Am I over my ex 
39:16 - Does my boyfriend stink 
 
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#19 How to Stop Crashing Out: Get Into a Routine

Struggling with low energy, stress, or feeling “burnt out”? In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of a consistent morning and nighttime routine for your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Learn practical strategies to boost happiness, regulate your nervous system, and prevent energy crashes throughout the day.
Discover how simple daily habits can:🌞 Set the tone for a productive and positive morning🌙 Wind down at night for better sleep and recovery💆‍♀️ Keep your nervous system balanced⚡ Maintain energy levels without the mid-day slump
Whether you’re looking to improve your mental health, reduce stress, or create sustainable daily habits, this episode is packed with actionable tips to help you feel your best every day.
Tune in and start building a routine that supports long-term happiness, focus, and energy!
 
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Time stamps 
00:16 - Spilling the tea: life lately
06:07 - Routine talk: how we actually do it (no Gatekeeping)
23:17 - The only guide you need to building the perfect routine 
25:18 - Stop stress eating!! Try this instead 

#18 The ONLY guide you need to be happy

Sleeping in every day, feeling unmotivated, and stuck in a rut? This episode is your ultimate guide to start feeling happy, motivated, and yourself again in your 20s.
 
We kick things off with laughs (because laughter is the best medicine) before diving into the best mental wellness hacks to boost your mood:✨ Why cat videos actually make you happier🌸 How buying yourself flowers can lower cortisol and ease stress🎯 Finding purpose and resetting your goals when you feel lost🧠 Stopping negative self-talk by killing the ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts)💭 Why emotions aren’t always reality – and how to stop overthinking them
 
Life in your twenties isn’t about being happy every single day, it’s about learning to ride the flow of ups and downs. Some days are hard, but with the right mindset shifts and small habits, you can create more good days and bounce back quicker from the bad ones.
 
If you’ve been struggling with burnout, self-care, or motivation in your 20s, this is the episode you need.
 
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0:35 - Oliwia’s secret finally revealed 😳
03:35 - Charlotte OVERHEARD the JUICIEST secret 👀
04:58 - Charlotte’s red flag date 🚩
06:06 - The ONLY guide you need to be happy ✨
20:18 - Why feelings aren’t always reality ✨
21:53 - How to start enjoying the ride that is life 🤠
25:56 - How to stop panicking 🫣
29:04 - ☎️ Girls trip from hell - do I tell my boyfriend this MASSIVE secret?! 🤐 

#17 FOMO FIXED: The Ultimate 20-Something Survival Guide + BFF Drama & Our Kidnap Scare

Feeling that constant fear of missing out? You’re not alone. This week we’re unpacking FOMO in your twenties –  This week, we’re spilling tea on BFF drama, a near kidnapping, and why no one has life figured out in their twenties.
 
We unpack how social media and comparison culture keep us chasing the next big thing instead of enjoying what’s right in front of us. Are our hormones and bigger frontal lobes making women more prone to overthinking? And is gratitude the antidote to feeling like you’re always behind?
 
Get ready for unfiltered chats, friendship truths, and a fresh perspective on why your twenties are messy, magical, and nothing to FOMO about.
 
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Time stamps 
00:57 - ASMR 👂✨
02:01 - What If One of Us Turned Into a WORM? 🪱
04:18 - Moving the studio 🚘
6:35 - PSA 🚨‼️
7:05 - Love Island debrief ❤️🏝️
9:48 - That time we almost got kidnapped 😨
11:12 - Charlotte’s big realisation 🤯
12:38 - The TRUTH About Your Hormones 🧬
16:59 - Men Categorised… And It’s TOO Accurate 🐄🐀🦁
21:26 - Beginners guide to avoiding FOMO ✨
37:22 - Surviving your 20s Hotline ☎️: 
Is it time to dump my best friend?! 👯‍♀️💔
42:58 - 20s Tea ☕️: One Change That Will transform your hormonal health 🧬❤️‍🩹
44:20 - Oliwia’s threat to charlotte 🦈
 

#16 How to Live in the Moment : Stop Overthinking & Start Being Present in Your 20s

Our brains love to live in the past or the future,  but neither actually exists. 
In this episode of Surviving Your 20s, we share practical ways to live in the moment and actually enjoy life now.
We talk about why being present is harder than ever in your twenties, how phones and TikTok might be ruining our attention spans, mindful eating, and tuning into your 5 senses to truly connect with your surroundings. If you struggle with overthinking, constant distraction, or feeling like life is passing you by , this episode is for you.
 
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#15 How to Become more Attractive: Embrace Your Body + What’s Happening to All the 20-Yr-Olds?

How to INSTANTLY become more attractive in your 20s. Have we become too boring as a generation? Have we started to seek comfort from the wrong things?
In todays episode we are diving into: ✨ Learning to actually embrace your body — pouch, hip dips, snack drawer and all… 🍫 Comfort eating: why we run to food for emotional support and whether that’s totally fine or totally unhinged 📉 Why the Labubu™ is a Recession Indicator 😶‍🌫️ The growing mystery of why 20-somethings are dressing like 80-year-olds and vibing like retired teachers?? 🍸 The never-ending identity crisis: Hustle or party? 💅 Plus: the nail shape that may or may not be ruining your life (no pressure)
 
Come for the laughs, stay for the oddly deep realisations.
 
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#14 Meeting People in Your 20s, Sweet Treats, Hot Singles & situation-ship stalkers

Sweet treats, ear piercings, and the eternal hunt for hot singles, welcome to surviving Your 20sThis week we’re diving into:🍬 Why sweet treats might actually be saving lives👂 A very important investigation: where are men getting their ears pierced?🔥 The mysterious disappearance of hot singles are they hiding or just allergic to commitment?🛍️ How shopping is basically modern-day foraging (is Zara the new jungle?)💘 And finally, cracking into the brain of a hot single + how to accidentally on purpose catch one this summer maybe? 
 
Press play. Stay hot. Stay slightly unhinged.
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#twenties #selfgrowth #advicefortwentysomethings #lifelessons #mindsetshift #mentalhealth #quarterlifecrisis #podcast
 
Time stamps 
00:42 - sweet treats save lives 🍬❤️‍🩹
09:00 - The shopping theory 🛒 🛍️ 
11:55 - WHERE are all the hot singles? 🔥
12:34 - Oliwia nearly committed a crime 🚔🚨
16:43 - Charlotte’s love list 📋❤️
19:06 - Oliwia’s most embarrassing breakup story 🫣
19:06 - The piercing pandemic 😷🪡
22:05 - The difference between men and women 🤦‍♂️🙋‍♀️
28:39 - Oliwia’s body building comp 🏋️‍♀️💪🏼
36:28 - How are 20 year olds meeting people these days?? 📆
38:51 - Surviving your 20s Hotline ☎️ HELP! My ex situation-ship of 5 minutes thinks that I’m stalking him… 🕵️‍♀️

#13 How to Get Over Him, Breakup 101, Why I FaceTuned My Ex, Landlord Love Story

How to Get Over a Boy 101. In today’s episode, we’re diving into our best (and most honest) breakup tips, plus plenty of our own breakup horror stories to help you survive the week. From crying on the floor to throwing up over a man you had to FaceTune for your hard launch… we get it. We’ve been there.
 
🧷 What’s Inside:
— The biggest breakup hack (it’s not what you think)
— Why men always come back when you’re hot again
— My most embarrassing breakup story (you're welcome)
— Why closure is a scam and blocking is free
— Why exes aren’t even real
💡 Comforting Facts to Hold On To:
✨ You don’t miss him, you miss who you thought he was
✨ Closure is a scam. Block him.
✨ Your heart is bruised, not broken
✨ You’re not starting over, you’re starting better
 
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Time stamps
04:00 - Love Island 🏝️❤️
06:47 - The Lemon Squeezer apocalypse 🍋💀
15:24 - Exes beware 💋
16:09 - Break up 101 📚💔
16:53 - Exes are not real… 🤭
20:53 - Oliwia’s most embarrassing breakup story 🫣
31:48 - The biggest break up hack 🤩
34:50 - Make them the butt of your jokes 🍑 

39:29 - Surviving your 20s Hotline ☎️ HELP! Does my bf secretly hate me?? 😳
 
 
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